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Statement on Family and care referendums by Cormac O Dúlacháin SC

Cormac Ó Dúlacháin SC

5 March 2024




Durable Relationships in Law


The law of personal legal status is based on the principal that a person has one legal status at one time.  In marriage this means  - one person - one marriage - at one time.

When the Constitution was ratified by people in 1937 the people knew with absolute certainty what marriage was - a relationship based on free choice, between two individuals over a certain age, made publicly in front of witnesses and registered in a public register and not one between persons closely related. Constitutional Referendums later made provision for divorce and marriage of same sex couples.

Marriage could not be imposed on you or attributed to you by the State. Your status was the result of your choice.

“Durable Relationships” is an unknown legal term in law. It has no universal meaning. It has no root in the public conscious and no common understanding among the public as to what it means. Yet the public is being asked to adopt it as a constitutional term.

As a term it appears in one EU Directive dealing with free movement of EU Citizens and as an extension of the benefits of free movement to an extra class of persons.

The Constitutional amendment by adding “durable relationships” ends the constitutional primacy of one status over another. It places both forms of family relationship on equal footing without distinction. It allows for the existence of multiple competing family interests. The concept of “one person - one status - at one time” is gone.

It introduces into law an objective basis for imposing a legal status on a relationship without any requirement that it be based on the free choice of the individuals involved or their consent of the agreement. The decision as to whether or not a relationship constitutes a durable relationship is not based on a public declaration and public registration by the parties. It is the state and not the parties that will determine if a relationship is deemed to be durable. It is a fundamental interference with the freedom to determine your own legal status in accordance with law.


Future Impact on Succession Law

Our succession law is based on providing significant rights to married persons on the premise that a person has one dominant legal family status.

These rights cannot hold if the State is to afford equal recognition to competing current family relationships and not make the legal recognition of durable relationships conditional on the legal dissolution by divorce of the existing marriage where succession rights are addressed or indeed ensure that marriage legally terminates all pre-existing durable relationships.

On a purely mathematical basis the minimum succession rights guaranteed to a spouse in one marriage cannot be guaranteed in equal measure across two or more family relationships.

Currently our Succession Law provides by way of example;

Marriage is a reset button – it invalidates all previous wills (save for prenups).

Married Partners enjoy defined entitlements which by way of example include -



Spouse / No Issue                   Spouse entitled to whole estate.

Spouse & Issue                       Spouse entitle to two-thirds.


Spouse / No Issue                   Spouse entitled to one-half

Spouse & Issue                       Spouse entitled to one-third


Spouses have a first call on the family home and contents to meet their entitlement.

Spouses have rights relating to property disposed of in three years before death, where done to disinherit the spouse.

There will be a fundamental inequality between marriage and durable relationships, marriage will be visible, open, public and registered where as durable relationships can be  non-transparent and concealed.


Single or Unmarried Parents

The  relationship of parent to child is a fundamental natural bond and deserves recognition on its own merits. It should not be grouped as sub-class of “durable relationships”, a wording, which even in its limited use in EU law, refers to adult relationships. The recognition and rights of “parent/child unmarried families” calls for separate recognitio


Blind Reliance

 A Constitution should not be amended on the basis of blind faith on what a fundamental term may subsequently be defined to mean.



What is presented as progress and modernisation is in effect a retrograde proposal.

While Article 41.2.1 does refer to the woman, is refers to the benefit to the common good arising from the “life within the home”.  That wholesome concept that embraces all aspects of family life is to be deleted and replaced with a narrow limited concept which equates parenting to “the provision of care”.  

There were many ways of reframing Article 41.2.1 without deleting  the reference to “life within the home” and removing the one constitutional provision that referred to economic support for the stay at home parent.


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